Monday, April 24, 2006

Attitude for Right Choice....


(This is somethin' from my student life, I wrote once for a newspaper)
LET IT REALLY SINK IN - THEN CHOOSE .

John was my teacher(more a friend) when I was in Australia for one year Study Exchange Programe. He always told me "You 're the kind of guy I love to hate. You 're always in a good mood and always has somethin' positive to say". When he would ask me how I was doin', I would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"

Then he started callin' me "Mr. natural motivator" LOL!

If he was havin' a bad day, I was there tellin' him how to look on the positive side of the situation.

One day he asked me "Seein' this style really made me curious, I came to ask you that I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"

I told him, "Each mornin' I wake up 'n' Pray to God 'n' say to myself, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or ... you can choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood."

"Each time somethin' bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or...I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it.

Every time someone comes to me complainin', I can choose to accept their complainin' or. I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life".

"
Though sometimes it doesn't work but most of the time it does work"

He protested "Yeah, right, it's not that easy,".

I said "Yes, it is, Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live your life."

I didn't know he took my words in what way. Soon hereafter, I came back from Australia. We lost touch, though he was in my Prayers as many other friends. 3 years later, I heard that he was involved in a serious accident, fallin' some 60 feet from Melbourne University Communications Tower.

After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, he was released from the hospital with rods placed in his back.

I met him about six months after the accident.

When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins...Wanna see my scars?"

I declined to see his wounds, but I saw a change in him, he was not just sayin' my lines but he had that Belief. I asked him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place.

"The first thing that went through my mind was the well-bein' of my soon-to-be born daughter," he replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or...I could choose to die. I chose to live."

Me: "Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?"

He continued, "..the paramedics were great. They kept tellin' me I was goin' to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a dead man'. I knew I needed to take action. "

Me: "What did you do?"

John: "Well, there was a big burly nurse shoutin' questions at me, She asked if I was allergic to anything. I said 'yes'. The doctors and nurses stopped workin' as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Gravity'."

"Over their laughter, I told them, I am choosin' to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."

He continued ..."I lived, thank God 'n' thanks to the skill of those doctors, but also because of your amazin' attitude... I learned from you that every day we 've the choice to live fully."

Me: "Attitude, after all, is everything."

"Shouldn't fall for tomorow, it 'll be taken care of" Talmood, 2:6.
"Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow 'll worry about itself" Bible, Matthew 6:34.
"Make the right Choice 'n' keep the Attitude strong, it 'll work for tomorrow itself" Koran, Sorah Namal (subject).

"After all today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday". And today he has same Faith as I 've........

You all 've two choices now:

01. Read it 'n' Comment for it.

02. Read it 'n' Comment for it 'n' learn somethin' Positive from it, like John.

You know the choice I make for now is to ----->*Smiles*
God bless all.....


18 Comments:

At April 24, 2006, Blogger fairygirl701 said...

That really is inspirational--I have tears in my eyes after reading!! I thank you for sharing this, I really needed to hear it.

 
At April 25, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

plagerism is not posative

 
At April 25, 2006, Blogger Mr. Khurram said...

Anonymouse Dear! I don't know who you 're, don't know you 're he or she, don't know you 're even human, coz every time you leave a comment like an Alien. Everytime you leave a comment you try to piss me off, but I choose not to be. *Smiles*

"The Australian" is Australia's National newspaper.
http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/

All you 've to do is, go to nearest library 'n' get the the copy of "The Australian" of Feb,08,2001. On it's "Ed" page, this is first column with my name.

*Smiles*
God bless you......

 
At April 25, 2006, Blogger benz said...

Once again u have brought a smile on my face...
yes life is all abt attitude... :)
i m oroud of u brother...

thnkas for sharing it with us ..

toast to u...

 
At April 25, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

salams
regards to your comment
dont say that, this was when I was 15 and therefore I do not look like that anymore

 
At April 25, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

very good post I admit. Very moving and inspirational

 
At April 25, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree with the above comment

 
At April 25, 2006, Blogger sumaiya bhad said...

Meaning and origin of Khurram

Gender:Male

Ethnic Origin:Muslim

Meaning:Delightful. Happy.

Popularity Ranking:
This name is not ranked in the top 1000 most popular names for the years 1990 through 2003.

Numerology:
Expression Number 9: People with this name tend to be passionate, compassionate, intuitive, romantic, and to have magnetic personalities. They are usually humanitarian, broadminded and generous, and tend to follow professions where they can serve humanity. Because they are so affectionate and giving, they may be imposed on. They are romantic and easily fall in love, but may be easily hurt and are sometimes quick-tempered.

from sumaiya

 
At April 25, 2006, Blogger Mr. Khurram said...

Sumaiya Dear! thankyou for takin' time to find meanings of my name. It is deeply appreciated indeed. In today's busy life there 're very few people who take some time out of their busy scdules for their friends.

Please do tell me the site where they tell everything just by puttin' your name in it?

Are you sure that information given above is True, about me ??? I think there 're some errors in it. *Smiles*

God bless you....

 
At April 26, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Inspirational indeed...something I should definitely think about...especially these days...thanks for posting it...see ya champ :)

 
At April 26, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am not sure whether is autenticated islamiclly

 
At April 26, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

you know this is true you are a very inspriational person. You motivate me in ways that I don't think that you truely realize. You have brought new meanings into my life that I never thought was possiable...... I like the new look for your blog it is tranquil and very refreshing.

 
At April 27, 2006, Blogger Aisha said...

I love the header!

 
At April 27, 2006, Blogger sumaiya bhad said...

HEY YOU CHANGE THE LAYOUT OF URE BLOG

 
At April 27, 2006, Blogger Mia said...

That was beautiful and so true. Now you know the secret behind my smile. BTW I love what you’ve done with the place…lol

 
At April 27, 2006, Blogger Sam!! said...

Such a nice n impressive post u placed there. Thnx for sharing:)

Hope u n rest everything is fine at ur side.

Takecare.

 
At April 28, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

somene left u a comment on my blog. just thought you might be interested. TC

 
At April 28, 2006, Blogger Minnesota Nice said...

"Get busy livin' or get busy dyin'" is another good quote!!

This is some beautiful blue sky you've got here!!!

 

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