Games......
Love is a Universal Truth, no one can deny that. A Man 'n' a Girl (also gays/lesbians) meet each other 'n' at some point (sooner or later) they feel they 're in love with each other. Some times they meet at parties, meet through friends, meet as co-workers, meet in schools/colleges, meet at business dinners, meet in neighborhood 'n' many other ways. There is another way some people believe in it 'n' some don't. INTERNET!!!
People meet via Internet 'n' fall in love, some times coz of one's Beauty the other falls in love, some times coz of one's lovely Heart 'n' Soul, some times just coz of one's Attitude 'n' Personality. It's also True that alot of people just play Games here, they just play with others' emotions 'n' they don't even care that they can hurt somebody so badly. Though it's also True that people even play Games in real life, it's also True that I 've seen people fallin' in love via Internet 'n' gettin' married 'n' spendin' a happy life.
What do you(all) think individually? you 're single 'n' you meet sombody via Internet, 1. Are you gonna let yourself fall in love? 2. You think of it as just a Game? 3. Do you 've any other opinion about this?
God bless all....
posted by Mr. Khurram @ Saturday, June 03, 2006
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10 Comments:
I met someone via the internet once and flew to England to meet him - it was a complete disaster, he had lied about everything. Would I try it again? Mmmmm, maybe.
Well i think no one can love anyone intentionally or with any planning, its just happened by itself and wat i think is LOVE is God gifted. So we can love anyone no matter through wat channel we met him/her. Secondly i think its a game of trust and i strongly beleive that if i m being honest n sincere with anyone than I'll get the same return from him/her. In my view its the most easiest n simple way to trust anyone. So if i m playing with anyone or his/her feeling n emotions than I beleive that I 'll get the same return and offcourse it gonna hurt so will never do that.
So in short b positive n get positive no matter wat the channel is to meet someone.
Hope u fine there.
Takecare.
Sweet cousin, its an interesting subject, kher tey hay na jugya? lol
I have a few friends that have met over the internet and have gone on to get married and are really happy. But honestly I have had more friends hurt by guys they’ve met over the internet so I am kind of leary about that whole web courtship thing. On a personal note I met one of my dearest friends over the internet when we were teenagers in a chat room. It turned out we lived in the same city but did not hang out in the same social circle. We met in person, hit it off and have been inseperable ever since.
Meeting on the internet is more dangerous because it is harder to discern truth. When you meet someone in person it is easier to watch they way the act and handle themselves to make a better judge of character. Meeting someone online is not that way. You only know what they tell you.
True that in life we meet people all the time who are fake and eventually their true colors shine forth. I believe that is the same way online or offline. It's just smart to be more careful online.
I like all of the blogs that I visit and have many blogger friends that I care about, even feel a kind of love for and would be heartbroken if something bad happened to them.
But loving someone and falling in love with someone are two different things. To fall in love with someone on the internet, is foolish and immature.
A person can certainly have an attraction for someone on the internet but they can not be in love with someone they have never met.
Which is not to say that it could never happen, but the love part usually happens after they meet and have a long courtship to get to know each other. Then and only then do they find out if they are in love or not in love and go their seperate ways.
I tend to agree with Kristiesue, meeting people on the internet can be a dangerous business.
On rare occasions it works out, more often then not it does not work out, and some end up hurt or even dead.
I bet I can read your mind, lol, you are thinking but you take that risk everytime you meet someone in person too. This is very true. But at least you have a chance to find out something about them from someone you know/trust before you make a date with them. A friend, a relative or a neighbor may know something about them. But a long distance internet relationship? Nothing no way. You have only their written word. And sometimes the written word is made to allure and deceive.
This is a good subject to bring up Champ, I'm sure that you will get many varied opinions on it. I wish I had thought of it first, I would have blogged it. lol
Hi Champ, I deleted your question at my blog just so no one else will ask me about it - no offense! But I'm happy to answer: it was a year and a half ago, and it was a good learning experience!
it can be risky, but technically chuck and I met that way so it does work sometimes!
I know that the people I have met through blogging have been very real with themselves. Just be careful.
Games can be played both in real life and on the internet. Neither of whick are good or at all nice to do.
However, in real life I think you may have a better sense of who the person is, even if they are all playing game. You are able to read their body language and here the tones in their voice.
The internet there is much more anonymity and room to play. Either way games stink.
I do know several people who have met that way...some were successful and other weren't.
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